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My List of FIRST


This year was for one the most memorable in a sense that I experience so many things for the first time or at least the first since a very long time.

Just want to share to you my joy in those experiences so this will not be a long writing(or typing, lol).

I met my uncles, aunties and some of my relatives in my father's side for the first time ever last April. They're from Italy and told that story from one of my blog posts.

I met my high school classmates some of them for the first time in seven years. Here were some of our pictures in my FaceBook account. Yap, you need to log-in first. I doubt you have a FaceBook account 'cause it's only known to few people like me. Having 400 million users the time I'm doing this blog post. :)

I also enjoyed the first rain for the month of May. Here's some of the crazy pictures with my cousin and sisters. With this scorching summer temperature, we can't help but to enjoy those I consider a rare phenomena during this burning days of my life. Sorry for being so dramatic. I know you can relate too.

The first time we had a get together with my friends from my reviewing days in my board exam. The first time since the time after the board exam. Some of us passed the exam while some unfortunately don't. But what the heck, it's the friendship that I gained that I cherished the most. They're the ones I count on when I needed help with regards with my studies and with them I learned to do house chores. There I learned to wash my clothes for the first time. I don't  came from a wealthy family but you know  at home the love of a mother, some of them just want you to study hard and they'll do the things that you don't want to do like washing and ironing your clothes. But when you're away, most of the time you're on your own and that experience force me to discipline myself.

Just a week ago, I had a get-together with some of friends and  co-worker at the beach. I enjoyed the trip and the camaraderie among us. I really don't like singing in a video-oke(a machine especially created for frustrated singers) so with only four of us among the I think twenty of us, we sung from midnight until we noticed that the sun was rising. We also rode a boat, I can't remember when the last time I rode one so that's maybe also a first time.

I also attended seminars from Jomar Hilario about internet marketing so I met people there also for the first time.

I never knew that it is fun to meet different people. When I look at my personality as being a timid and reserved person, I really don't like to be in a situation with people that were really a complete strangers to me. Still, it is hard for me to approach some people but not that quite hard compared when I was in college. This does not mean that I loved to be a people-pleaser, that would a stressful thing to do. One of the key to failure is to try to please everybody.

Last Thursday, I got my TIN number for the first time. I've been waiting for two months for my company to give me that number. I need that so I can get a credit card or at least a debit card to connect to my PayPal account. So nine months later, 3 credit card application denied had passed. I don't know if it's because I don't have a TIN number or it's just a reflection of how low my salary is that even bank who issued credit cards don't believed that I'm capable to have one. Thanked God I decided to go BIR (Bureau of Internal Revenue) office in spite of  the intense summer heat. I don't get my TIN number from my company although they're the one whose supposed to give me but I got it by sending myself to the BIR office in San Pablo, my place. My long wait of two months and still waiting just took me for about five minutes. By the way, TIN number is Taxpayer Identification Number, we're all taxpayers so no need for further explanation, I suppose.

I said that would not be a long writing. So that's it. Hope you also enjoy the people in your life.

Untitled: Find Me the Right Title for This

Ahhh........

Don't know how will I start this blog post. Then, I start this way, with a long ahhhh....., then typing whatever comes to my mind in this very moment. LOL.

I think it's been two weeks as I remember since we eat together with my family, with my step-dad (yap, step-father but it don't bother with me that much, not at all), my three step-sisters, my little step-brother and of course, my mother. I'm not a talkative type of person but I can't help to be so annoying especially with my sisters. They would say "Kuya,umalis ka na nga, gulo mo, eh!" (go out you're so annoying!). I hope I give the right translation. LOL.

We all live at same house, but everyone has their own lives, my eldest sister love to dance, in fact she was more often not at home than me. There are days that we not even see each other although we both live in the same little but beatiful home. Did I say home? Yeah it's not just a house.

My next sister was always at home, loves to study and an avid fan of Demi Lovato. She would sing early in the morning with Demi Lovato's song and sometimes rock ones. Oh no, she's just sitting almost right next to me watching ASAP( Philippine TV show showcasing different artist with different talents  like dancing, singing and many more), and don't get me wrong cause I'm not promoting the show, I hope she would not notice that I include her in this blog post. She would cancel this blog post although  I don't mentioned her name, she was also like me, had a bit introverted personality.One more thing, she also loves to play Farmville. From Facebook, you know? The not so famous social networking site.

My next sister, a seven year old one. I don't know if all the children in that age are with the like of her today. My Lola would always say "Iba na ang kabataan ngayon" (The youth today were very different), and I would say the same thing every time I see her. Like when we were eating she would said "Gusto ko mag-nursing, kasi nakita ko yung babae ang gwapo ng boyfriend" (I want to take-up nursing because a saw a girl with a very good-looking boyfriend). There was a time when I was surprised to just heard her crying, the reason? My two elder sisters read her diary with about "my crush" stuff. She is also a very thoughtful sister and also enjoy studying doing her academic responsibilities.

My youngest brother, four years old. Was sooooooo... energetic, also a very thoughtful little angel but sometimes I admit annoyed me. I came home from work, so tired, all I'm thinking was a luxury of having a good enough sleep. Then came my little brother jumped into my stomach, I was tempted to be so angry but my brother has spider sense like from Spider-Man, do you know him? I feel sorry for you if you don't. Anyway, this spider sense of my little brother can predict when I'm not in the mood. He will say "Sorry tuya" (ah, I can't find a translation, LOL) but the thing is he knows what to do before I react to what he had done. With that, he gave me an instant ease, I completely forgot the pain. I don't know with you, but can you imagine how would you react in that situation? You just want a nice sleep but what you got was an aching belly.

My step-father and my mother, my most wonderful parents. Just like me, has so many flaws but I can feel everyday from the time I woke-up in the morning 'til I fall I sleep how much they love  and care for us. Every morning, all I have to do was to wake-up early to go to work or in school as a part-time instructor in some school in my province because everything was ready. I woke-up 4 o'clock seeing my mother already preparing everything that we need from food to clothes with some bonus advise (sometimes I don't pay attention because my ear was bleeding, you know what I mean). But don't get me wrong, like I said, my parents was not perfect but I will not trade my parents to any other parents in the world. They are the best parents that God has given to me. We choose our friends but not our parents, they are God's gift to us. Maybe you don't believe in that, and I can hear you saying all the reason  why you don't. This is just my opinion, but denying the fact would not remove the fact.

Of course, my father, not my biological one. He's been more than a father to me. My real father was in Italy, I just start talking to him recently, just about 2 years ago. That's another part of my story and I'm not ready to share this you at this point. Then back to my step-father,but first don't get me wrong again, I'm not angry with my real father and I'm just keep mentioning step with my step-father because it's the fact and just for clarification. My father, my step, is a very hard-working man, finding other ways to earn because next year my eldest sister would go to college, he applied abroad and this coming March would leave us for a three-year contract in Lebanon.

I'm also doing my best to find financial freedom by means of internet marketing. I think the very reason I'm sharing to you my personal experiences is because learning from other people's experiences including their mistakes in their lives is for you not to do that mistake earning you more wisdom to make tough decisions that will literary change your life forever. I always said that I am an internet marketer, but I don't even have a credit card, I was always denied because of my salary (now you have an idea how small I earn at work). I have still so many things to learn and sometimes relearn again. There were so many ways to get some payment through the internet, not just in credit card to create Paypal account and autoresponder account, I can use debit card instead which I know I'm qualified. My fears  is the one who gave me excuses why not find plan B,or C or D and so on, when my first plan failed. 

But, even though I'm not earning big enough that made my father(you know which one) to apply abroad to find more opportunity there. I believed that you can't failed in internet marketing as long as you don't quit. My mentor Jomar Hilario said "fear is the only thing between you and money in the internet" and I'm slowly realizing the truth in that.

I'm done writing my thoughts but still can't find the right title for this. If you're interested, can you suggest the right one? I can't promise you anything in return but I will deeply appreciate it.

May me all live a fantastic lives! GOD Bless!

An Inspiring Story of Iranian Internet Marketer

By Eric Holmlund

I want to tell you about a young woman who has overcome some extreme obstacles on her brief but challenging journey to internet marketing success. Her name is Ladan Lashkari, and when I say she’s a young woman, that’s an understatement. At just 20 years old, she has a youthful look that defies the maturity she’s developed in such a short time.

I suppose in the online world, youthful success is not entirely unusual. The fact that she’s a girl making money on the internet becomes much more significant when you realize where she comes from. She lives in Iran. Ladan was born and raised in Tehran, Iran, and lives there to this day.

There are political, economical, and religious obstacles that make it difficult for anyone to be a successful internet marketer in Iran, and in most cases even more difficult for a woman to do so. With respect for Ladan, I’m not going to get into the details of the specific political and religious barriers that many women face in Iran, but just be aware that this story runs even deeper than I’m able to write about.

If internet marketing was a wrestling match, she’s starting the competition with one hand tied behind her back simply because of the place she was born into the world. Next obstacle: the language barrier.

Although you wouldn’t know it from her articles and sales letters, Ladan was not born into an English-speaking family. She started learning the language at eight years of age, and devoured every English book she could get her hands on.

Even at such a young age, she began to realize that her fluency in English would open up more doors of opportunity throughout her life.Throughout her teen years, this fervor grew as she tackled the language head-on.

A true entrepreneur, she decided that she wanted to become independent and produce her own income. When her family bought a computer, she quickly began experimenting with ways she could turn it into an income stream.

She tried all kinds of business: teaching Windows, graphic designing with PhotoShop, website design, and even learned C++ programming. Even though she was able to make money through those avenues, she knew that there was a bigger opportunity out there.

At sixteen years of age, she discovered the world of internet marketing through the late Cory Rudl’s website. She bought and studied his internet marketing course, along with other ebooks and resources. She knew right away that THIS was the business she wanted to be in.

Her friends and family tried to convince her that becoming a successful internet marketer in Iran would be IMPOSSIBLE, and that she shouldn’t continue to waste her money. If you’ve ever faced the negative energy of friends and family, you’ll understand that it’s a powerful force that can quench your enthusiasm and ultimately abort the launch of a new business.

Fortunately, her father believed in her, and the resistance of others made her more determined than ever to find success.

After about a year of learning and studying the business, she launched her first website, and the rest—as they say—is history. But that history has not been without its fair share of bumps and valleys. Jumping into business forced her to take her English proficiency to a new level.

For a long time it was difficult to read and comprehend the many technically-oriented ebooks that she acquired. And if reading comprehension was a challenge, writing was an even bigger issue. It would take her six hours to write and proofread an article, but her determination paid off.

Today if you search for her name on a search engine, you’ll find a slew of her articles indexed all over the internet. And as if writing weren’t enough, she wanted to write her own sales copy. Anyone who’s ever successfully written a sales letter will concur that being a good writer doesn’t make someone a good copywriter.

I’m amazed to say that Ladan is a good copywriter. Being a copywriter myself, I wouldn’t say that if it weren’t true. She applied the same vigor to learning the craft, as she applied to learning the language itself. She studied articles and courses from the top copywriters, and practiced until she had developed her own style.

While there is obviously some innate talent at work here, I’d say that she is also a testament that copywriting CAN be learned. Starting her business was the beginning of a long uphill battle. Because of the US embargo on Iran, she faces obstacles that most of us wouldn’t imagine.

As I mentioned, her culture has already tied one hand behind her back. The language barrier effectively tied the other one. And the following problems essentially tied her feet…a situation that would cripple most marketers and paralyze them from moving forward in business.

Most people wouldn’t jump into a new business with their hands and feet tied. It’s impossible, right? Just don’t use the word “impossible” around Ladan…

To start with, she couldn’t get a credit card. That makes it pretty tough to buy anything online, wouldn’t you say?

My business relies on my credit cards for many things. Not a day goes by without several business-related charges to my credit card. As I think about it, many of the products and services that I use come from sites that ONLY accept credit cards.She can’t open a PayPal account.

Again, this limits her ability to make online purchases. It also rules her out of participating in a large number of affiliate programs that only pay commissions via PayPal. Of course probably the biggest disadvantage of not having a PayPal account is not being able to accept PayPal payments. She estimates that this one issue is costing her many thousands of dollars in lost sales.

She can’t get a merchant account, so it becomes very difficult to sell anything online. She can’t have a bank account in US dollars. So that rules out another possibility of making or receiving payments.

To make matters worse, she can’t have any bank account that accepts wire transfers. This cripples her ability to receive payments from affiliate programs to her bank account, or from merchant services for her own products.

So even if she can find a way to sell a product online, getting that money into her own hands is a huge obstacle. She can’t cash any USD checks. That rules out most of the other affiliate programs. She can’t travel. It’s almost impossible for her to get a visa to travel outside of Iran.

This means that she has not been able to go abroad to attempt to open up accounts, and she can not attend any internet marketing seminars. Those are just some of the barriers created by the embargo. There are many more limitations imposed by the Iranian government. On top of these physical barriers, she also faces another kind of discrimination that continues to this day.

In a business built upon online image and perceived trust, she has been severely disadvantaged by the way much of the world views Iranians. As she puts it, “the reactions are not very pleasant.” She thinks it’s mainly due to the way the media has portrayed Iran and Islam.

This has made it difficult to be open and build relationships online, as she has found that even her own subscribers, customers, and business associates look at her differently when they discover she is from Iran.

She says, “some people even act like I am a terrorist”. She has received “hate” emails through her websites and also on forums. “I know who I am and where I stand,” says Ladan, “but what the media shows the world and what my country’s government does has nothing to do with me. So I just wish people in the west – especially the United States - would understand this difference.”

Let me ask you a few questions…

Do you have a credit card? Do you have a PayPal account? Can you open a US bank account? Can you receive US checks? Do you have the freedom to travel? Could you go to an internet marketing seminar?

Maybe you didn’t answer “Yes” to ALL of those questions, but for EACH question you answered “yes” to, you are starting one step ahead of Ladan.

Let me ask you a couple more questions…

Are you fluent in English? If you said “Yes”, take two more steps ahead. Do people view you as a terrorist? No?

Take three more steps ahead. If this girl can do it, so can YOU. It doesn’t matter how old or young you are…it doesn’t matter where you live in the world… it doesn’t matter what other internal and external factors are trying to hold you down. You CAN succeed.

In spite of all her challenges, Ladan views internet marketing as an easy opportunity to take advantage of, and she encourages others to do as she has done…“I think there’s nothing hard about it. It’s the perfect kind of business for people who want to be independent and work for themselves in a business that there’s no limit to your success.”

If you’re just getting started, she has more advice: “When you are just getting started, you should know it might take some time to make the amount of money you expect, and you should keep on and don’t give up - no matter how people around you try to disappoint you. I think this is the most important and difficult part… it’s where most people give up.”

In the three short years that she’s been in business, she’s worked hard and implemented many strategies that she’s learned by studying other successful marketers.

Out of everything she’s tried, she deems list-building as the most important component of her business: “Nothing is more powerful than building a targeted responsive list and building a relationship with that list.”

While her income may not yet be on par with the internet marketing superstars, she’s earning a living online that would impress even those of us living in a more generous economy (she recently earned $6300 USD in a month).

The thing that must be kept in mind is that she is making more money than about 95% of the people in her country, and bringing home more income than her countrymen who have 30+ years of experience in their careers.

I’d love to see what she’d be capable of achieving outside the restraints of her county, and so would she, which is one reason she is considering a move to a locale more conducive of her business—such as Canada or Australia.

She says the biggest key to success is: “Believing in yourself, and promising yourself that you WILL reach your goals and won’t let anything or anyone stop you.”

When I asked her what makes her different from those who fail, she said that her success is derived from her persistence in facing and overcoming challenges and obstacles.

She points out one of her favorite quotes from Ross Perot: “Most people give up just when they’re about to achieve success. They quit on the one yard line. They give up at the last minute of the game, one foot from a winning touchdown.”

When she’s not working on her business, she enjoys reading self-improvement books (who would have guessed?), dancing, watching movies, spending time in nature, and going out with friends. In other words, she’s just a normal girl with big plans and an indomitable positive attitude.

Today she has more than 20 websites, and she hopes to expand her business by 400% while continuing to help others find their own success. You can learn more about Ladan and her business here...

As Ladan says: “If a young girl who got started when she was only 16 years old, with no previous business experience, with English being her second language, with less than $30 to her name, in a country where you can’t have a credit card or PayPal account and is under a strict embargo from United States, and so much more limitations… If such a girl can succeed, how is it possible that YOU can’t succeed - while you may not even have one of these limitations?”

Ladan will never give up. I hope you don’t either.

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Ladan Lashkari has all the reasons not to succeed but her reason that she will become a successful online entrepreneur is far more greater. There is always hope so we must never give up on our dreams.

I got this story from James Parmis Blogpost, you can read more of his posts at http://www.makemoneyonlinemanila.com/
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